Let Him Chase You!
Yes, we are in the 21st century and anything pretty much goes, but just because we can do something, doesn’t always mean we should. From the beginning of time, men have always enjoyed the chase. The mating game was one that was artfully played by both sides. Neither side was overtly obvious about their attraction to a particular person. There were etiquette lines that were never crossed, and how to be a lady is what every well-bred girl was taught. Women who openly pursued men were whispered about, and called names that were not very nice. Even with all of these restrictions, women who allowed the chase got married all the time!
Today men are confused as to what their role actually is. At some point, women decided they wanted to be equal with men. The men thought this was stupid, but agreed. So they stopped opening doors, and pulling out chairs. They no longer gave up seats to women, and raced them to parking spots. As women flooded the workforce, men saw their calling of being provider and protector fly out the window. This paradigm shift has had a huge impact on relationships in today’s society.
Women have become quite comfortable with approaching men they are attracted to, calling them, and going away on unaccompanied weekend jaunts together. They shower them with gifts, and even give them money. Apparently, women have believed the propaganda that there is such a shortage of men, they need to behave in this manner to make sure they get one. Is it desperate times calling for desperate actions? If the focus is taken off celebrities and their brazen ways, women would see that maybe, just maybe they were missing something. If they were honest, you would find that women are unhappy with this equality nonsense.
In days gone by, it was said that boys only married nice girls. Contrary to popular belief, it is still true. Nice men do still look for nice women to marry. They want to pursue her, make her feel special, spoil her, provide for and protect her. They are not in a hurry. They want to spend time getting to know that special woman they have found.
Ladies, let him chase you! His pursuit of you should send your self-esteem through the roof. It means that he values you, and that you are worth fighting for. He is ready and willing to invest his time and resources in winning you, and ultimately keeping you. Have you ever noticed that the women who do the chasing, more times than not, do not end up with the relationship they desire? Letting him do the chasing, does not mean you are old-fashioned, or not with it. It means you are smart, and are allowing the man to assume his proper role. Just because everybody is doing it, does not mean it is the right thing to do. Let him chase you, but remember to slow down and let him catch you!